Hey guys, thanks a lot for your tips!
I tried again a bit and found out that they were two different things.
On YouTube, the reason was the "Five Loop" extension, which allows you to change the pitch and speed of the videos (the small 8 on the bottom left).
The second reason Reaper closed when FL Studio is open was that Reaper doesn't seem to like the "Komplete Kontrol DAW - 1" input which is enabled in FL Studio and is required to send messages from the keyboard to the DAW. Even if I activate this input in Reaper without FL Studio open, Reaper immediately closes automatically. In Reaper this input is not needed and in FL Studio you can only use it to control the transport with it, so I just leave it out in FL Studio and hope that Reaper doesn't close automatically anymore!