Yes thank you i figured that out after the fact. Note that this thread has also been discussed in
http://forum.cockos.com/showthread.php?t=34063
If you DID want to automate your show from a script (rather than put all of your songs together into one file and use regions/markers as discussed in the other thread), you could write a batch file that contained a section for each song (in the order you want them to play in) like the following:
echo - Playing SONG A
start reaper.exe SongName.RPP
pause
taskkill /F /IM reaper.exe
Then basically you'd end up with a DOS window open that said "Press any key to continue". When you hit any key (like Space) it would close reaper and the current song and then open reaper and the next song. In this way there'd be VERY little interaction with your computer between songs (assuming that reaper and the script window are the only things open, you could just do "ALT-TAB" and then "Space" and it would load the next song for you).
Pros to this approach:
-very minimal interaction with the computer during live shows
-the ability to use project files with TONS of plugins in them (way more than you'd wanna combine into one file)
-since reaper is closed between projects, it frees up memory, etc between songs
Cons:
-This isn't very "nice" (it's force-killing reaper after every song). Really there is NO reason why this should be a problem, but it's not exactly an elegant approach
-There IS a delay between songs.. On the Dell latitude d820 I'm using, this is about 4 seconds for a rather large project file where the ENTIRE song is done in plugins on the laptop. IMHO it's purely philosophical whether 8-10 seconds total between songs (figuring in walking over and pressing "Alt-tab + Space") is acceptable.
-There is a certain amount of chance that something won't open properly or whatever. Honestly I've NEVER had this happen in Reaper..
YMMV, and I'm definitely going to at least try the suggestions in the other thread, but I've tried this batch file method already and it seems to work quite well.