hooooooray its all working again!!
the guy from bleeping computer gave me a script or something that would clear out all the midi bits in the regisrtry but it didnt seem to work so i got so fed up/brave i tried the other fix ollie gave me myself in the registry as the instructions looked very clear ....but again nothing happened even when i restated the computer
so i went to bed totaly depressed & worried i might have messed up my PC registry .....but when i turned it on this morning it was all working properly again....so im not sure realy what the fix was!
anyway thankyou all so much for the help & suggestions i am realy grateful to you all
as for false eyelashes i live in basildon which is probly the false eyelash capital of the world....if you dont wear them here they think you must be a man!